Things I Won’t Do
Filed Under (Daily Posts) by Cynthia on Jul 5, 2008 5:23 pm
Tagged Under : Chatter, Family
Most of the time after a wedding, the woman needs maternity clothes, but not me! 
My husband and I got married at the dog park in March of 2003. That makes it just about five years this year. And I will say, I am happily married. We do our own things, we do things together sometimes, and I think it’s a good balance for us. Though for many people it’s probably not enough togetherness. But it’s good for us.
My husband still isn’t working, but he is looking. We both have the anxiety thing going on and so we understand each other in that area. And even though he hasn’t worked for a few months, I am being patient and believing in him.
As for the title of this post, things I will NOT do are berate him, or criticize him, or belittle him… or nag at him or hassle him for not working yet. I don’t want to live in misery like that, and I want him to feel better about himself. I will admit, too, that I’m proud of myself for this, because in the past I would have freaked out (actually, I did years ago) but no longer. I finally have reached the point with someone that I am in the frame of mind that we are in it for the long haul. I don’t have an escape mentality anymore. And I tell ya, I really like it!
On this day..
- Reading in the Loo - 2007
- Nothing Last Night - 2007
- SA Bloggers - 2006
I love that you got married at the dog park!! That’s so cute!! I’m glad you found someone you can be happy with!!
Christys last blog post..Life changes so fast.